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Independence, Revisted
“It’s just that I don’t think in terms of expecting anything from anyone.” -Seregil of Rhiminee* (I got a few worried messages the last time I visited this subject. Everything is fine- I’ll try to...
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Kissing
I hate it. I think I just never got beyond the five-year-old “boys are icky” phase in this particular area. I realise I’m supposed to like this. It’s supposed to be a sign of intimacy, a physical...
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The Blind Leading the Sighted
It takes a lot for a sight to qualify as strange on the streets of New York City. That’s why the blind man being lead by the elbow didn’t even register as remarkable. The fact that the man doing the...
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Humiliation
Why did “humiliation” become a bad word? “Humility” has connotations of virtue, whereas as “humiliation” is more like “degrading” (I suppose “degradation” would be the more accurate word to compare it...
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Long-Distance Discipline
Long-distance relationships rarely sound like a good idea. However, when the alternative involves searching, waiting, and a fair bit of loneliness, are they worth considering? On the vanilla friendship...
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Deep Philosophical Question
A girl with a certain fondness of both rules and spankings finds herself in an unusual predicament. How does one satisfy both desires while maintaining personal integrity? And how is such a girl to...
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Long-Distance Discipline – Update
A while back, I indicated that I was about to embark on an experiment with long-distance discipline. I have to say that I have been pleasantly surprised (and, at times, pleasantly sore) so far. As I’d...
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Limits
For the rest of us, the process is considerably more chaotic, and sometimes considerably unenjoyable. “Limit” sounds like such a simple word- something that one knows one won’t enjoy, and therefore...
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Vanilla-Clueless
Kink-aware is all good and well, though, as with all things, balance is critical. I think I may have missed the memo on how vanilla people meet partners. I’ve noticed a pattern recently where I think...
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Non-Traditional Halloween
I spent my day awaiting and then carrying out a reminder/punishment assigned by my disciplinarian. It occurs to me that this is a very appropriate thing to do on this particular holiday. It’s a bit...
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Hiding in Plain Sight
I made my first tacky Christmas jumper this year, having finally given into the local tradition (and looking for an excuse to buy a glue gun). I was quite proud of it- bells and baubles and lights and...
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The Need
Sometimes I feel like I need a spanking. Well, ok, quite a lot more than sometimes, but there are days when the need burns stronger. Not just for a simple bum-beating, that holds little attraction. It...
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The Need- Level 2
With thanks to Sue Mary for the comment on last week’s post that helped me unravel this a bit more: “But the question is do you really wish to be held to that higher standard to monitor everything you...
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Simply Submissive
Thoughts inspired by Lea’s post a while back. I’ve never had much trouble with labels in terms of kink. I’m female and heterosexual, which I realise is on the simple, predictable end of the...
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Long Distance Discipline: Reflections
image from A Spanking Soon Previous posts in this series As part of a new year stock-taking exercise, my mentor has encouraged (rather strongly) me to reflect on our arrangement. The results of this...
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Confession
image from Tales of Naughtiness While there is a certain attraction to the idea of being caught- the inevitability of punishment, the powerless feeling, and, of course, being able to pretend that if...
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The Man from the Pub
image from Scarlet’s Real Magic There is a man at the pub, a very kind, gentle, thoughtful man, who thinks he likes me. He doesn’t know. I wish I could tell him. I wish I could tell him that I am...
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Change
image from A Spanking Soon I like to pretend that I can do no wrong. I also like to pretend that it isn’t just pretending. But it is, and on occasion it becomes glaringly apparent. At such times I...
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Twofer
image from Bad Girls Need Good Spankings I was supposed to be spanked last night. It didn’t happen, and while I’d like to say it was because he simply could not find any reason to spank me, it was...
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Appearance and Acceptance
“Does my hair look alright?” I asked as I tied it up- tied it not quite hastily, but not with the usual token attempt at care. You raised an eyebrow, a moment of incredulity that quickly devolved into...
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